An old saying in telugu

daughter(married and at her inlaws): mallepudosthave naina?
                                                       when wil you visit me again?
father: ni bottu cheriginappudu, ni inti muggu cheriginappudu
          when your bindi is lost (when you lose your husband)
          when the white powder formation on your porch is disfigured (by your playful son)