Thursday, June 7, 2012

My cervix has to do five things: it has to come forward, it has to shorten, it has to soften, it has to thin out, it has to open. - Annie Enright,Making babies.

low(verb)
babygro as in onesie.

In a tunnel

A while ago the receptionist mentioned that the company had a Mother room. I didnt care to ask where. I guessed where it might be.
Today my friends took me to a section where food is sold by Honor system. I have been there before but today I was going by a different way. In all the simplification that our brain does so things fit into it, it seemed impossible that the way we were taking would take us to the food. after many turns in the narrow tunnely way, I spotted a Mother's room on the left. But it has only one desk. Mothers dont fight!!

Still Eureka

There's lesser water
for the baby
in the bath tub.

Last time I just noted

This time I thought
of the displaced water
and the growing baby
and Archimedes

Eureka
with no half-naked
running

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Safety 1st bath tub has a warning that it is to be used only till the baby is 6 months old. But by then, when the baby is placed in the tub, no water will stay behind.

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Market ahead of customer

Pediatrician asked us not to use any gels for teething. We told her we didnt even know that such things existed.

Today my friend asked me what do babies think about?

Sunday, June 3, 2012

Partying with baby

With a sleeping baby, waiting for her to wake up, so she can be bathed and then go to a party, is like waiting at the running track for the gun to go.
At the party, seated next to a mom with baby, I asked if I could hold the baby. The mom said that they just came from a trip and the baby is cranky from the ride.
I forwarded my hand, the baby held it. And then, she touched my arms and my mouth. I imagined my baby doing that. That transmission of presence and awareness.
Mothers were talking about how from their and other's experiences if they shifted to teaching the babies eat on the high chair, neither would they eat by themselves properly nor let their moms feed them. With independence comes the choice to not eat.
A mom believed that children grow faster when grandparents are around to love them.
My baby quietly performed artwork in the diaper. I have seen that at parties, parents take turns eating so the other can watch the baby. Suddenly when asked to eat, I realised I was very hungry. Lying on a sofa, she found a green chunni interesting to watch and she tried to get the owner into conversation. When we realised that the baby hadnt asked for a feeding in a while, we knew that our stay had to be wrapped up. Before we were about to leave, our friend informed us that we left the lights on. While getting out of the car, what seemed like a crack was actually a bird's diaper art. My bell didnt ring then that the light was on.

A tradition: Putting sacred bottus to a well. And then pouring some water into the well, paying obeisance to the water god, so that the baby is not afflicted with any water borne problems. If there is no well nearby, a  bucket of water can be substituted for the well.

An elderly lady wrote a song for the kid's cradle ceremony. I caught 'health and wealth' of the lyrics while concentrating on how best to cleanup the diaper art.